17 Myths About Dog Training Debunked

Let’s bust some dog training myths — because if you’ve ever Googled how to train your pup, you’ve probably run into a lot of outdated or just plain wrong advice. Over the years, we’ve worked with dogs of all ages, temperaments, and backgrounds, and we’ve seen firsthand that most dogs can be trained — it just takes the right approach.

Here’s a quick guide to the biggest myths we hear all the time — and what actually works instead.

Myth: "You can’t teach an old dog new tricks."
Totally false. Older dogs often focus better than puppies and can be calmer learners. We’ve trained senior rescues to sit, stay, and even do agility basics. Don’t let age stop you from working with your dog — just go at their pace and keep sessions short and positive.

Myth: "Training is about punishment."
Nope. Punishment-based methods usually backfire. They can make dogs anxious or even aggressive. What’s worked best for us (and many trainers) is positive reinforcement — rewarding the behavior you want with treats, praise, or play. It builds trust and works long-term.

Myth: "You have to be the alpha."
That whole “alpha dog” thing is outdated. Dogs aren’t trying to dominate you. What they really need is clear guidance, consistency, and kindness. You don’t need to be a tough guy — you just need to be someone your dog trusts and wants to listen to.

Myth: "Only professionals can train dogs."
Sure, pros can help — especially with tough behavior issues — but you can absolutely train your dog at home. We’ve done it ourselves, and so have thousands of other dog lovers. Start small, stay patient, and use resources like books, online videos, or local classes if you need support.

Myth: "Aggressive dogs can’t be trained."
Aggression is usually a sign of fear, poor socialization, or past trauma — not a permanent personality trait. With the right approach (and sometimes professional help), even reactive dogs can improve dramatically. We’ve seen it happen with proper training, patience, and safety measures.

Myth: "Only positive reinforcement works."
It’s hands-down the best place to start. But we’ve learned that some behaviors might need more management, especially if there’s danger involved (like a dog trying to bolt into traffic). Even then, corrections should be fair, safe, and used sparingly — not as your go-to method.

Myth: "Dogs only listen when they’re hungry."
Food is a great motivator, but it’s not the only one. We’ve trained dogs who prefer tug toys or belly rubs over biscuits. The key is figuring out what your dog loves, and using that as a reward.

Myth: "Training is a one-time thing."
Think of it more like going to the gym — you don’t just go once and expect to stay fit. Training is ongoing. Even just 5–10 minutes a day keeps your dog’s mind sharp and strengthens your bond.

Myth: "Training is just about obedience."
Training helps with more than sit and stay — it can ease anxiety, reduce destructive behaviors, and even improve your dog’s confidence. Plus, it’s a great way to bond and have fun together.

Myth: "Dogs outgrow bad behavior on their own."
Sometimes, sure — like puppies biting less as they teethe. But bigger issues (like aggression or extreme separation anxiety) usually need guidance to improve. Don’t wait it out — start training early.

Myth: "Some dogs are just untrainable."
Every dog learns differently. Some take more time. Some need a different style. But with patience, consistency, and the right motivation, we believe any dog can learn. We’ve seen it again and again.

Myth: "Aversive tools like shock or prong collars make training easier."
They might suppress behavior short-term, but they come with serious risks — like fear, stress, or aggression. We avoid them and recommend you do too. Safer, reward-based methods are just as effective and build a better relationship.

Myth: "Crates are cruel."
Used correctly, crates can be a safe, cozy space — especially for potty training or preventing destruction when you’re not home. Just don’t overuse them. Make sure your dog gets plenty of exercise, social time, and mental stimulation outside the crate.

Myth: "Rubbing a dog’s nose in accidents teaches them not to do it."
This one needs to go. It doesn’t work and only creates fear or confusion. Instead, clean up calmly and work on better timing — catch your dog before they go, and reward them when they potty in the right spot.

Myth: "Training always has to involve food."
Food is awesome for learning new things, but once your dog knows a behavior, you can mix in toys, praise, or play to keep things interesting. The goal is to make good behavior rewarding, whatever that looks like for your dog.

Myth: "Dogs hate training."
Many dogs love training — it’s a chance to earn rewards, use their brains, and spend time with you. Sure, some dogs may be shy or distracted at first, but with fun, short sessions and lots of encouragement, most come to enjoy it.

Myth: "Dogs ignore you because they hate you."
That’s not how dogs think. If your dog isn’t listening, it’s usually because they’re confused, scared, distracted, or haven’t been taught what you want clearly. Focus on building understanding, not punishment.

Final Thoughts
Training isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being consistent, patient, and kind. Whether you’re teaching a new puppy or helping an older dog relearn the rules, keep it simple and positive. You’ll both get better with time.

And remember — if you ever feel stuck, it’s okay to ask for help. There’s no shame in working with a pro or trying a new method. Every dog can learn.