13 Large Dog Breeds Known for Their Friendliness
You want a big dog — but not a scary one. You want the kind of gentle giant who greets your kids with a wagging tail, tolerates the chaos of family life, and melts into a cuddle at the end of the day.
Good news: that dog absolutely exists.
Some large breeds are simply wired to love everyone they meet. And below, you'll find 13 of the friendliest big dogs out there — with honest notes on what makes each one special and who they fit best.
Let's find your match.
“Some dogs are just born to love everyone they meet — a big body and an even bigger heart.”
The 13 Friendliest Big Breeds at a Glance
Before we dive into each breed, here's the honest truth: friendly doesn't mean identical.
Some of these dogs are outgoing party animals. Others are shy at first, then loyal for life. Here's how they stack up.
| Category | Rating |
|---|---|
| Labrador Retriever | |
| Golden Retriever | |
| Newfoundland | |
| Bernese Mountain Dog | |
| Great Dane | |
| Boxer |
Let's start with the two breeds everyone thinks of first.
Classic Family Favorites
If you've ever pictured a dog running through a backyard with a kid on its heels, chances are you pictured one of these two.
1. Labrador Retriever
Labs are the ultimate people-pleasers. Goofy, affectionate, and happiest surrounded by their humans.
They're also incredibly trainable — which is why they're a top pick for families with young kids.
What this means for you: if you want a big dog who's always up for fetch and always ready to cuddle on the couch, the Lab is your go-to.
2. Golden Retriever
Think of a Golden as a Lab with flowing hair and an extra dash of sweetness.
They're gentle, patient, and fiercely loyal — basically the dog version of the friend who always remembers your birthday.
But here's the catch: they crave attention and bonding time. Be ready to include them in everything you do.
Now for the big, fluffy, tail-wagging teddy bears.
Gentle Giants
These breeds are enormous — and somehow among the sweetest dogs you'll ever meet.
3. Bernese Mountain Dog
These fluffy giants are calm, kind, and just thrilled to be part of the family.
They adore kids and are surprisingly gentle for their size.
In our experience, they can be a little shy when you first meet — but once they know you, you're in for life.
4. Newfoundland
Picture a living teddy bear. That's a Newfie.
They're massive but endlessly sweet and patient, especially with children.
Here's a fun fact: they were originally bred for water rescue, so they're natural swimmers. Live near a lake or pool? You've found your co-pilot.
8. Leonberger
Leonbergers are calm, affectionate, and surprisingly sensitive for their size.
They're deeply loyal to their families and good with kids.
Just know this: they need a bit of space — physically and emotionally — to feel their best.
13. Great Dane
Despite their sheer size, Great Danes are some of the gentlest dogs you'll ever meet.
They're friendly, laid-back, and usually wonderful with families.
Just be ready for two things: a lot of slobber, and an extra-large couch companion.
Next up: the loyal protectors with a soft side.
Loyal Guardians With Soft Hearts
These breeds may look serious, but at home they're devoted to their people.
9. Mastiff
Don't let the intimidating look fool you. Mastiffs are incredibly gentle and affectionate.
They love their families deeply, though they can be reserved with strangers.
They're not the most playful, but they make up for it in pure, quiet loyalty.
10. Estrela Mountain Dog
These Portuguese guardians are loving with their families and especially protective of children.
They're not the most social with other dogs — but they're fiercely loyal and make excellent family companions.
11. Dogue de Bordeaux
This breed is all about loyalty. They form deep attachments and are protective by nature.
Behind that serious face is a very affectionate home dog.
Just be aware: they may not tolerate rowdy kids or unfamiliar dogs as easily as some breeds on this list.
Pros
Why guardians make great companions
- Deeply loyal and protective
- Calm and steady at home
- Excellent bond with their family
Cons
What to consider
- Reserved or wary with strangers
- Need early, consistent socialization
- Not always tolerant of other dogs
Now for the bundles of pure energy and joy.
Energetic Goofballs & Outdoor Buddies
Got energy to burn? These friendly breeds want to burn it with you.
5. Redbone Coonhound
Coonhounds bring a mellow, friendly vibe and usually get along great with kids and other pets.
They do have a strong prey drive, so early training and a secure yard are key.
Manage that, and their easygoing nature makes them a total joy.
6. German Longhaired Pointer
Eager to please and very affectionate, these dogs thrive in active households.
They're smart and energetic, so they need a job to do.
Love hiking and outdoor adventures? This breed will happily be your sidekick.
7. Weimaraner
Weims are loyal, playful, and athletic — and they bond hard with their people.
They can be a bit intense with other dogs if not socialized early.
With proper guidance, though, they're total lovebugs.
12. Boxer
Boxers are energetic goofballs who love being the center of attention.
They're playful and affectionate to the core.
Their enthusiasm can overwhelm small kids or quiet households — but if you've got the energy to match, they're an absolute blast.
Quick poll
What's your ideal big-dog energy level?
One last thing before you choose.
A Few Tips From Experience
Here's the truth about every dog on this list.
No matter how naturally friendly a breed is, early socialization and training are non-negotiable.
Even the sweetest pup can pick up bad habits if left to their own devices.
Set your big dog up to succeed
- Socialize earlyIntroduce new people, pets, and places while your dog is young and impressionable.
- Train consistentlyShort, positive sessions build a confident, well-mannered adult dog.
- Match the breed to your lifeEnergy, space, and grooming needs all matter — be honest about what you can offer.
Frequently Asked Questions
Labrador and Golden Retrievers are the most beginner-friendly. They're highly trainable, forgiving of mistakes, and eager to please — a forgiving combination for anyone new to big dogs.
Many are excellent — Newfoundlands, Labs, Goldens, and Bernese Mountain Dogs are known for their patience. That said, always supervise interactions, since even gentle giants can accidentally knock over a small child.
Not always. Calmer breeds like Mastiffs and Great Danes can do surprisingly well in smaller homes as long as they get daily walks. High-energy breeds like Boxers and Pointers need much more room to run.
It varies. Labs, Goldens, and Coonhounds tend to be social, while Weimaraners, Dogues de Bordeaux, and some guardian breeds may need careful, early socialization to get along with other animals.
The everyday logistics — bigger food bills, larger beds, more powerful pulling on the leash, and higher vet costs. Training and budgeting matter more than most first-timers expect.
Generally no. Giant breeds like Newfoundlands and Great Danes tend to have shorter lifespans than small dogs. It's a hard truth worth knowing before you fall in love.
Most large breeds stay puppy-like well into their second or even third year. Consistent training and plenty of exercise help smooth out the adolescent energy along the way.
Sviatoslav Oleksiv founded The Pets and Love in 2019. A lifelong pet owner and Rhodesian Ridgeback enthusiast, he writes and edits our guides to help fellow pet parents give their animals the best care.
Every guide follows our editorial standards. This article is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice — always consult a licensed veterinarian about your pet's health.